When we were young watching cartoons, there was a character with a funnel in his ear who couldn’t hear. He always said, “Eh! Whatcha say? It was funny then, but not as funny now as we get older and begin to experience hearing loss. I recently interviewed Danyell Schendel who lost all hearing in her right ear after a bout with meningitis as a toddler.
Danyell was a participant in a video series called It’s Your Choice that followed three people on their emotional journey back to hearing. On average, people with hearing loss wait more than seven years before they seek help. As a result, they often experience emotional challenges and safety risks. There are nearly 48 million people who are affected by hearing loss in the U.S. alone.
The purpose of the Signia videos is to raise awareness of hearing loss and what can happen if you wait too long to address it.
The three subjects in the series, Danyell, Harvey, and Robert were chosen after a nationwide search. They received hearing tests, expert diagnoses, and hearing aids that were matched to their individual cases. You can watch the complete series here.
Danyell’s hearing loss story
Danyell lives in Tennessee not far from Memphis and has been trying to build a career as an actress. She hid her hearing loss from her friends because it made her feel ashamed. It was embarrassing to ask them to repeat themselves when they carried on conversations. Up until she became a participant in the video series she had gone 12 years without an audio exam.
When she attended a local audition for people with hearing loss she was asked to tell her story. Six months went by without a word and she figured the part was no longer on the table. Finally, she received a call that she had been chosen as a participant. She was sent to an audiologist to assess her status. Signia, the company sponsoring the videos, gave her a pair of cross hearing aids that use a receiver to transmit what she hears in her left ear to her right non-hearing ear.
Danyell said it took time to get used to wearing her hearing aids but says they are comfortable. The only obstacle she’s had is using a headset to listen to music. She wears them all day until she goes to sleep and can control the volume using an app on her phone. Now she enjoys listening to music and watching TV. Her hearing aids have given her emotional freedom because she no longer feels ashamed or left out.
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Hearing loss and balance-related ear problems can also be a safety hazard when you’re driving, walking on the street, or at home. Don’t put it off. Get checked, especially if you find yourself saying, “Eh, Whatcha say?”
Losing your hearing can be so frustrating. I know several people that are dealing with this. It’s a challenge for them, and it’s a challenge for “us”, the people communicating with them. We don’t always realize that they don’t hear and like Danyell, they’re sometimes ashamed to admit that they didn’t hear. Thanks for sharing this!
You’re so right, Mona, about it being frustrating for those trying to communicate with someone who can’t hear well. I live with someone who can’t hear me unless I look directly at his face. He claims his hearing is perfect, but I’m beginning to wonder.
I feel badly for Danyell, that she’d been living, embarrassed by something out of her control. I’m so glad she was given an option that can enhance her life.
I felt bad for her too. It must have been so difficult and I’m so glad she found a solution that works for her particular situation.
My mother in law had hearing issues for years. She went to several doctors, was prescribed hearing aids, but there was always a reason why she would not follow up. Embarrassment? People telling her they hated her hearing aids? Reading lips only got her so far. You are so right about how much hearing loss impacts quality of life.
My parents were like that too, Alana. They would never wear their hearing aids and then complain because they couldn’t hear. There have been many improvements in hearing devices to make the experience much more comfortable.
The two people I’ve known who got hearing aids says they help–sometimes. They don’t work well when there’s more then 3 or 4 people within hearing range. Even w/a moderately computerized hearing aide, it’s still difficult to do what people w/good hearing do automatically–be able to differentiate between the sounds you want to hear (conversation of your friends) and the “background noise” of other people conversations, background music, etc. Also, the batteries & remotes, are, one friend said, a rip off. Nothing is standardized so no universal remote for hearing aids, but $200 for the remote for your specific brand. Batteries wear out rapidly and have to be a specific type (apparently made by the brand manufacturer) and they too are expensive.
Too many people can’t afford the testing, can’t afford the inflated prices for hearing aids. Some people who can afford them, don’t though, for whatever reason–both of my parents refused to even see if hearing aides would be useful in ameliorating their hearing loss.
I’ve heard similar stories Azure and you’re right, they are expensive. Hopefully, Congress will add hearing, vision, and dental to Medi-Cal to make it easier to afford for seniors. But it can be very frustrating if you have hearing loss so they’re worth a try even if they aren’t perfect.