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Having Trouble Sleeping Over 50? These Tips May Help

by Rebecca Forstadt-Olkowski 8 Comments

I have been working on a sleep campaign on Facebook and Instagram and am getting feedback from women over 50 who have trouble sleeping. It’s common for older people, particularly women in post-menopause to experience sleep issues. Many of these women offered tips on how they cope with the problem.

Trouble sleeping has become even worse because of the pandemic as well as its related financial anxiety.

Do you wake up during the night and then have trouble getting back to sleep. This can be a particular problem for people who are over 50. Anxiety, having to go to the bathroom and other factors can cause insomnia. Click here to read tips on how to sleep better.

Make sure your bed is supporting you

For a while, I woke up in the middle of the night and felt like my arms and shoulders were vibrating. The feeling was so annoying I couldn’t go back to sleep. I was freaking out thinking something was seriously wrong until I realized it was simply muscle tension. Then I discovered the way my bed was set up made it even worse.

When I moved to where I am living now, I found a used wooden sleigh bed online with wooden slats that I love the look of. I also ordered a mattress in a box that comes with built-in springs.

I did some research and learned the slats that go across my bed frame were not giving me enough support. Slats should be no more than 2 1/2″ apart and mine had too much space between them. I found a mattress support wooden Bunkie on Amazon to make the platform stronger.

Each slat is connected by bands to evenly space them and keep them in place. Instead of laying the bunkie across the bed frame, I took the slats out of the bands and placed them across the frame with the old slats to form a solid platform. A sturdy solid board would have worked as well, but this was easier for me to deal with.

I also put a 2 “mattress topper over my mattress to make my bed even firmer.

Now I am sleeping like a baby and no longer feel like I’m “vibrating” from tension.

It pays to buy a high-quality mattress and bedding in the first place, but that isn’t always possible. If you are experiencing trouble sleeping, check to make sure your bed is giving your back enough support.

That annoying peeing issue

One of the biggest reasons older adults have trouble sleeping is that they have to get up and pee in the middle of the night. My roommate, who is the same age as me, gets up almost every hour. I usually make it until around 5 am, then have a pee dream, and know I need to go to the bathroom. Sometimes I can go back to sleep but if it’s almost time to get up, I don’t.

I’ve recently become obsessed with historical TV shows like Versailles on Netflix. They always make me wonder how people dealt with doing their business at night before we had indoor toilets. We have it pretty easy.

According to historians, Versailles was a stinky cesspool for many years.

It’s hard to control how often you feel the urge to pee at night other than to limit the amount of liquid you drink before going to bed and then hope you don’t trip on the way to the bathroom.

Take a break from electronics before going to bed

Unlike my roommate, who watches TV all night long, I refuse to have a television in my bedroom. It’s supposed to be bad Feng Shui to have any electronics in the room you sleep in. My computer is in my room because that’s also where I work, but I make sure to turn it off an hour before going to bed, so I don’t get disturbed.

It’s tempting to look at your phone before dosing off to sleep, but that can also cause a sleep disturbance. It’s much better to read, meditate, listen to a book, or turn on soothing music.

Other ways to help you doze off when you have trouble sleeping

Many of the women who commented on my sleep campaign offered their advice.

Some mentioned they get up, watch a movie or read a book and then try to go back to sleep.

It reminded me of medieval sleep practices where they would have a first and second sleep. After the first sleep, our ancestors would get work done, have sex, party, or whatever people did in medieval times, and then return to bed for sleep #2.

Many women mentioned that they either pray or meditate.

Meditation will put you in a relaxed state, so if you never go back to sleep, you won’t feel wiped out in the morning.

Others took a sleeping pill or something like Benadryl.

Make sure that you run any medications by your doctor first and be careful not to get addicted to sleeping aids. Instead, try natural sleep remedies like melatonin, or chamomile tea.

Trouble sleeping can also arise from having hot flashes, a snoring spouse, a cat on your face, or a dog edging you out of bed. I slept with two dogs at night, so I can relate.

Those who have sleep apnea, which can be a dangerous condition, say their sleep improved by using a sleep apnea machine.

Joint pain and discomfort are common as we age. I find that regular exercise eases much of that.

I find having a long bath or shower before going to bed not only eases my anxiety but also relieves the aches and pains that come with age.

One of the biggest reasons older people lose sleep is because of anxiety. We worry about becoming ill from cancer, heart disease, and who knows what else. We may also be reliving past traumas like loved ones dying or terrifying accidents. Get help if need be or practice self-care to reduce your stress.

How do you get to sleep after you wake up during the night? We would all love to know. Please leave a comment below.

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About Rebecca Forstadt-Olkowski

Rebecca Olkowski is a travel/lifestyle blogger and founder of BabyBoomster.com, for active older women over 50. She is a purveyor of all things fun, loves to venture out in the world, is a foodie, and lives in Los Angeles.

Comments

  1. Jennifer says

    January 17, 2022 at 3:58 am

    I am one of those people who has to have a TV with a sleep timer and a quiet shut-off. For some reason, I can only fall asleep if I’m playing a comedian in the background. It can’t be a new show that I’ve never seen because then I’d want to stay awake. But give me Gary Gulman or Neil Brennan? Their soothing, low-key delivery will have me asleep in no time. Let me be clear, they are not boring, they are hysterical but I’ve listened to their shows enough times that it’s the cadence of their voice that soothes me to sleep. Of course, sometimes this backfires, like the time I fell asleep (IN THE FRONT ROW!) at a Gary Gulman show.

    Reply
    • Rebecca Forstadt-Olkowski says

      January 17, 2022 at 9:27 am

      That literally cracks me up, Jennifer. Hey, whatever works, right?

      Reply
  2. Laurie Stone says

    January 17, 2022 at 6:30 am

    Getting up early makes a big difference to me. Then my body is naturally sleepy at bedtime. Still, there are sometimes “those” nights. I try to keep them at bay with early rising and watching something funny before I go to bed, never the news or anything disturbing.

    Reply
    • Rebecca Forstadt-Olkowski says

      January 17, 2022 at 9:28 am

      I’m with you on getting up early, Laurie. I love mornings.

      Reply
  3. Diane says

    January 17, 2022 at 10:35 am

    Sleep. Something I cling to with hope every night. Love these suggestions!

    Reply
    • Rebecca Forstadt-Olkowski says

      January 17, 2022 at 11:06 am

      Thanks, Diane. I think we are all clinging. LOL

      Reply
  4. Beth Havey says

    January 17, 2022 at 12:11 pm

    Great post. Because the children are raised and it’s just two of us, we often watch a film before
    bedtime. John falls asleep immediately, I stay up. Most often I read. Sometimes I even write and of course I
    watch taped editions of Chicago Med and This is Us. By midnight, I’m usually ready. I lay down and in
    minutes I’m asleep. I also have yogurt before bedtime. As for the urinating issues, it varies. Ah life. No French castle for me.

    Reply
    • Rebecca Forstadt-Olkowski says

      January 17, 2022 at 12:47 pm

      I often eat yogurt for dessert after dinner. It’s good that you sleep so well, Beth.

      Reply

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